Not many people know the real me and my life so far and how it has made me the person I am today......so let me take you back to 1979 the year I came in to this world........ and 18months later my mother through depression and alcohol and probably not in a mental state of mind decide to put my hand in to boiling water to which left me with a server burn and disabled right hand,I was then taken in to care till I was 16 and moved around the uk I spent most of my childhood and t eens in and out of hospital having over 17 operations which where for skin grafts and bone straightening and ligament tightening,Years later I first met my mother not long after my 17th birthday and released then that her condition had worsened but I forgave her for her mistakes as we all make them and what was in the past stays in the past after she was my mother then a few years later she sadly died.... I also then met my father as they where not together,I met him and his wife most weeks for a couple of years and again he sadly died and me and his wife had become very close and she was the closest thing I knew as a mother as she looked out for me as one of her own and we still see each other every weekend and her children have become my extended family,over the years I also started to meet own family I had 3 half sisters and 4 half brothers of which one brother sadly committed suicide at age 20 and I also learned about the tragic death of one of my sisters 4 children in house fire and I also got to meet many nephews and nieces and cousins,so as you can see it's been a tough road I have been down but that's not the end of it...... after I was born my mother had 3 more children after I was born a boy 6yrs later who was taken straight in to care when born and adopted by a loving family and a girl 4 yrs later also adopted by the same family sadly my mothers other child died a few hrs old, I was lucky enough to meet them when I was 10 and again at the age of 12 and then I did not see them again but as far as I was concerned they where happy and loved,then out of the blue a few weeks ago I had a message off my niece saying that someone was trying to find me and had been for a few yrs and low and behold it was my younger sister and brother 25yrs later, I was shocked and so happy to find them again.
So all I can say if life for me had been a traumatic start and a rocky road to travel down but I wouldn't change it as it made me the person I am today and I couldn't be happier
So all I can say if life for me had been a traumatic start and a rocky road to travel down but I wouldn't change it as it made me the person I am today and I couldn't be happier
